Sunday, February 21, 2010

Department of Child Protection Response is Abuse

Talked to Katrina from Department of Child Protection today about my daughter Ella and it seems they are washing their hand of the case and doing a cover-up, stating that Ella is in my care and that I am responsible for her care although the Department of Child Protection took my daughter out of my care and never let me know where she is living.
The Department of Child Protection couldn't’t even tell me if my daughter was attending school, or where she is.
My point of view is they took her out of my care and my mothers care and put her on the streets to do what she wants
The department is now hiding their responsibilities of care sighting section Section, 32, 1b
Children's and community act 2004
http://www.austlii.edu.au/au/legis/wa/consol_act/cacsa2004318/s32.html

The act states: Further action by CEO

(1) If the CEO determines that action should be taken to safeguard or promote a child’s wellbeing, the CEO must do any one or more of the following —

(a) provide, or arrange for the provision of, social services to the child and, if appropriate, a parent or other relative of the child;

(b) arrange or facilitate a meeting between an officer and any one or more of the following people —

(i) a parent or other relative of the child;

(ii) a person who is significant in the child’s life;

(iii) a representative of a service provider;

(iv) a representative of a public authority,

for the purpose of developing a plan to address the ongoing needs of the child in a way that ensures the best outcome for the child;


I dispute that the best interest of the child is to live with a family that is on drugs and the boy friend is in and out of juvenile detention and having sex at the age of 14yrs old. Seems the department is going to cover it up the best they can.

http://father-familycourtchildabuse.blogspot.com/

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Family Court Of WA & department of child protection


At this time I'm going to add information as it come to hand and when I have time to scan documents
Child abuse through the Family Court Of WA is encouraged by the Judges and other Government bodies or agencies.
My case from the start was doomed when the mother decided to make false child abuse allegations against me, know it would rip my heart out being put in the same category as child molesters. Many reason why the Judge should have known that these allegations were false including that up to the time of separation (weekend before) I was down south with my children because the mother dint want to come along.
I’ll leave the rest of this story until later although I’ll post a compliant
that I sent of to The Department of Child Protection

Names of children has been changed for their protection

DCP

To the department of child protection

It’s difficult to know where to start with this complaint as there are so many areas that I believe the DCP as failed it duties and put lives in danger mentally & physical, the psychological damage that will last for the rest of their lives and mine.

First of all I’ll like to make note that this started way back in April 2004 when my ex-wife filled and affidavit that stated that I/the father was inappropriate touching the children’s bottoms while calling them gorgeous and sexy (or words to that effect.)

When my daughter ran away to me I contacted Joondalup office in person with my daughter and requested them to investigate these allegations that were sworn on a legal document to be true.

The male officer at DCP refused and took Kate of me and gave her to the mother. I attended DCP twice and each time got no affirmative action. It was easy to see Kate was very distressed being taken of me. One of these times I attended DCP they didn’t want me to tell my daughter that I was leaving, they wanted me to leave by the back door and make it look like I just abandon her. This I believe even today to make it look like I didn’t care about my daughter/daughters, to pass me off in bad light. Once DCP go involved they should have protected the innocent, they should have protected the children, even if it was to investigate one child being Kate at that time as they DCP took Kate from me, upsetting myself and Kate

DCP even said that these allegations are normally made in the family court, this I already knew from the WA Police at Warwick police station that wouldn’t investigate these horrific allegations against a father because they knew them to be false, so that’s two Government agencies that informed me of the same thing, normal for these allegation to be made in the family court and they know they are not true that’s why they did nothing. They knew that this type of false allegations take place and even when the mother is found guilty of lying deception and tell a miss truth its normal Court practice to do nothing.

Making false allegations against a father courses not only the father metal stress but the children as well and this is children psychological abuse on the children and the father and torture.

It is well documented that the family court are not an investigation service on child abuse cases, the Department of Child Protection is. DCP are meant to protect the children and myself from abuse and failed their duty and contributed to the abuse by removing Kate from my care without making sure that these allegations were true or false

WA police are meant to protect me from fraud, perjury and also abuse and they failed, naming that these allegations are normally made in the family court. Again they participate in child abuse and an illegal practice even to the extent that they themselves abuse Kate physically and psychologically took part in this abuse.

My mother and I attended Warwick police station requesting them to investigate the mother for “perjury to commit fraud” and second “the sexual allegations against me” and judge Thackray say was Fact so my allegations was that she committed fraud without any consideration to the children just for money and some act of course me harm for some reason that can only be answered by her. All for her personal gain in financial matters and to course me pain and suffering because she knew through the marriage my point of view on the subject of sexual child abuse allegations can be sole destroying to an innocent party.

The Police detectives refused to investigate the fraud allegations and the sexual allegations against me. He (the head detective) said they know I didn’t do anything. I was a mad as hell and demanded them to investigate and they just said forget about it and wait until they reach an age to return. I then pulled out a written confession that I did sexually molest my children and handed it over and said now you have to arrest me and I’ll get a proper hearing in a court of law that will deal with fact, prove I’m innocent and that she and her lawyers made these allegations up to gain advantage in Family Court hearing. They couldn’t believe I would go so far as to do this to prove I was innocent and refused to arrest me. The look on their faces said it all. They even mentioned again that they know the allegations were false and this is no way to go about it. I taped this convocation on my irriver recorder.

One Detective walked me outside while my mother was still up-stair talking to the head detective.

On reaching outside I told the detective that I could basically assault him and you still wouldn’t do anything because my case would be hinged on you not protecting my rights and you wouldn’t want that coming out in court would you. He turned quickly and rushed back inside.

On having an allegation of this sort not investigated is 100% discussing and reflects on the authorities not protecting my rights. Didn’t matter what agencies I went to they all seemed to protect false allegations in the family court. Why they do this I don’t know, just seems maybe because nothing will happen against the mother even if proved she is lying, but at least it would have saved the children and the rest of my direct family going through torture and such pain and suffering that no-one would realize without being me or the children. Kate the oldest still cannot go back and revisit what happened trying to shut that part of her life out

Sometime later I even wrote out a confession to the Warwick Police Detectives and they said “Tony we now you didn’t touch your children so we are not going to investigate, at that point I handed over a typed confession saying I did all these terrible things to my daughter and still no investigation. I was so desperate to prove that these allegations where lies and not one department protected my right or my children.

You failed your duty of care course long term psychological abuse to my children and parents and myself. You took the children/child of me and placed her in the mother’s care that made these horrific allegations that were later to be found fact in the family court of WA coursing me to have many nervous breakdown as well as mother and affected my father’s health.

This it had great effect on my daughters up-bring have no father around, Kate and Ella both told me how upsetting it was over the years. Such as father’s day and the graduation ball that they both went home cry because I the father wasn’t there. I know the pain and suffering I went and continue to go through but couldn’t imagine what they went through. Only words that come to mind is torture as that how I’ve felt over the years.

The mother kept the children from having any contact since 2004 and dumped Kate (14yrs) and Ella (13yrs) on the street in early 2009, the children phoned me to pick them up from a street in Beldon. This again is child abuse leaving these two alone in the street with couple rubbish bag of clothes. She the mother never contacted me to say they were being dropped off to go into my care.

If any other mother dropped their children in the street I am sure DCP would take action against such a mother.

If you reject my claims that your department (DCP) are there to stop sexual and psychological abuse of children then what department is responsible?..............................................................................

I even phoned your department requesting an investigation when the children were allowed to be in my sole care during part of the school holidays that was also rejected.

Like to point out that Australian Government states the following

Emotional maltreatment: Inappropriate verbal or symbolic acts and a failure to provide adequate nurture or emotional

Availability. Emotionally abusive or neglectful behaviours include rejecting, ignoring,

Isolating, terrorising, corrupting, verbal abuse and belittlement.

False negative : Predicting/assessing that an event did not or will not occur (e.g., abuse) and subsequently

Finding that the event did occur (e.g., assessing that a case did not require intervention, and

Finding that a child is subsequently abused or harmed by a parent/carer).

False positive: Predicting/assessing that an event occurred or is likely to occur (e.g., abuse) and subsequently

Finding that it did not occur (e.g., assessing that a report required an investigation, and after

investigating, Finding no grounds for intervention).

When the children were dumped on the street by the mother they phoned me to pick them up, after that the mother went to Family Court to put the children in my care. I was so happy to have my kids back or at least two of them.

Then after a few months (around 7mth) they started playing up, Kate had under age sex and I went to report this to Scarborough Police station with what I called evidence and I believe it is not legal to have sex as a 15yr old child but seems I am wrong as the police wouldn’t do anything. Evidence was a text message from the guy’s mobile phone to my daughters phone that read to something like this. “Did you enjoy having anal sex; maybe we should use lubricant next time” To me that was poof and from the guy that had sex with my underage child. The police wouldn’t even keep the phone for evidence stating that they can get a copy of the text message if required later. I could not believe that the police did nothing at all once again not protecting an underage child that even your Family service department acknowledge that they had no morals at all.

Must make note that when the two children came with me I drove them out to Ocean reef privet school and Kate told me that her class mates said she seems happier now she is living with her father. When they came they walked with their heads down, not lifting their feet when walking and seemed to have no self esteem at all.

Again it’s like in 2004 that I requested them (Police & DCP) to investigate the sexual allegations and or case for perjury to commit fraud. Seems that government agencies don’t protect my rights at all from false abuse allegations to fraud and child abuse by the mother, just so she can destroy the children, my relationship with the children and my parents and I believe this was all over money that I had before marriage and we had a verbal agreement that if we ever split up each person leaves with what they come into the marriage with plus or minus percentage of growth. As she had nothing and I had 5 houses there was a large incentive for her as well as me being the main child care and financial supporter of the family. Along with that I had disabilities if she went into Family Court with the truth she would have been given more then what we agreed on but at least the children wouldn’t have suffered abuse and I wouldn’t have been tortured like I have over the years.

The children would have had a chance to live in harmony, have morals and believe the law is there to protect them so is DCP, but even today DCP & Police facilitate in a minor having sex under the age of 16yrs old and even DCP told me that the children lacked morals and I had a high standard of morals and was the best parent for the children.

Although during the missing years I didn’t grow as a parent with the children and didn’t consider myself as the parent I once was before the false allegations of abuse, (Before I believed I was a gr8 parent) if only the authorities had protected me and the children from the abuse that we have endured over many years now .

I was having trouble with my children so I called in “Family Services a Department” that later I find out is under the same umbrella as DCP or connected to DCP.

At first one lady came out and interviewed the children then me as I wanted the children to be listened too without my input first.

Had a meeting then the case was handed over to another lady. She had a meeting with me once a week and the Family meeting also once a week. They also had a privet conversation with the children and from what I’ve been told they also told them one thing and in family meeting nothing was brought out what they talked about. I really don’t believe this is true; believe it was the children trying to get their own way although these Family Service department did contradicted what they talked about with my mother and me.

Kate admitted later that she was on drugs at the time and I at the time asked her because when I ran a roof carpenter team I knew the effects on these people taking drugs and the way they acted.

Showed The Family Service that Kate had been drinking as there was a bottle under her bed and I was against drinking that I didn’t know about so I could keep an eye on them and restrict intake.

While having a meeting with me sometimes my mother would attend as well and on other occasions it was just me and her. Although she did bring along another lady that was much older. At these meetings she would tell me one thing and in Family meeting give the children complete control as if they can do what they like and we parents had to make the compromises not the children.

Parenting was agreed to be handed over to my mother as I couldn’t cope as I was dealing with those false allegations that had damaged me so much and from what the children told me damaged them as well. I know my mother had the same trouble parenting the children as I did but at least being a female she could restrict the Ella from jumping the fence where I couldn’t because the damage the sexual allegations had done to me. This also coursed problems as I knew at times the children needed a cuddle and I just wasn’t capable because the damage that had been done, even a simple cuddle I think where my hands are, should I be holding them like that, and many more things go through my mind so best was restrict any cuddles and the show of love to the children (not a nice feeling as a father that used to always cuddle and hold his kids in a normal way now they didn’t get the fatherly love and contact that more Ella required then Kate, Kate comment to me was that she didn’t want to get as close as we once were and I think she started to and pushed me way because the pain that she went through). When I was a Parent before all this, the best way to talk to the children was while having a cuddle (sitting on my knees/lap) so I could talk to them what they did wrong or even explain things they wanted to know at the same time showing them Parenting love.

Family Service

I contacted Family Service as mentioned above at the early part of 2009 when I was having problems with the children and so was my mother and father.

One problem was I wasn’t the father I once was due to the allegations and not being able to grow as a father with the children during the missing years. I believe parents grow with their children as parents and their skills

As the Family Service seemed to contradict themselves it wasn’t all that constructive.

Due to this I decided to apply to the Family Court for the mother to have the children for a couple reasons was they were coursing me and my parents grief and even my mother who was now doing the parenting had no control of the children on what they did. The boundaries diminished during Family Service involvement.

I would have thought my application to the Family Court would have been a formality seeing the found Fact that I molested my children, that no way could they deny my application but they did. I protested to the Judge saying she cannot make such an order considering the same Court finding Fact that I molested my children, if she wants to make such an order she must also state that those allegations were false and relieve me of that burden that has damaged me for so long. I believe if she did so it would have allowed me to have some self respect back to be able to be a better parent and it would have shown the children that the truth comes out in the end, even after a long period.

Family Service ladies that come out to see me didn’t want me to apply to the Family Court, they told me they believed I had a lot to offer the children and they can see that the children would be better off with me.

One of the ladies talked to Ella about my concerns of Ella have sex with this guy she was seeing against my wishes.

The Family service lady told me that Ella told her that she was not ready for sex. I informed them that Ella is more likely to have sex with him very soon and I was very concerned about this and wanted them to enforce my stance that it was not legal to have sex at that age. Also the guy she was seeing was always in trouble with the law and was street smart. I believe manipulating a child that lacked the required knowledge that she require to make important decisions. This guy was in and out of detention centres. Having the children I realized that they haven’t grown mentally, they were very immature for their age and lacked commences, appreciation and morals for kids this age and didn’t have the implements to make decisions that I consider I had at their age. Many years of damage cannot be undone over night and I even took steps for them to see a psychological service that Kate attended but Ella refused too.

I get a text message from Churchlands School informing me that Ella had missed the last couple of courses at school.

I talked to Ella and she informed me that she went down to the chemist to get a morning after pill. As a father I wasn’t happy and talked to Ella about this and I was disappointed that she has had sex and also could understand going to get a morning after pill. Turns out that Ella didn’t get the pill.

I phoned the school and informed them what Ella had told me and that I wasn’t happy about her having sex but could understand her trying to get the morning after pill so I will leave the punishment to them for her skipping school. I did make the point that it was difficult dissension to make see the reason she skipped lessons to get the pill because she had sex.

I also informed Family Service about Ella missing school and why. I also said I am against her having sex at that age and I think they should take action.

Family Service did nothing at all from my point of view.

Ella then went missing and we phoned the police and after a period of time they returned her.

Ella went missing again and this time for quite a period of time, she returned with DCP and two police officers. I was in bed when they turned up as I was under a lot of stress.

My parents and Elaine were also here at the time and were and are witness that DCP and Police took Ella out of my & my mother’s care. I make note I have an email letter here say DCP or police didn’t take Ella out of my care or my mother’s care and this is a complete lie.

DCP and police while here instructed Ella to go upstairs and grab some of her things and took her away.

I told them no way is Ella is allowed to go to her boyfriend’s mothers or fathers place that allow their son to have sex with an underage child.

Next I see Ella was when she turned up with her boyfriend’s mother “Bonny” and a car load of others to collect some of her things. As DCP and Police took Ella away from our care we allowed Ella to grab her things but she grabbed bedding that was mine and I tried to crab it back then Ella, Bonny and other members that came in the car grabbed me and Ella scratched the side of my face and police took photos of this .

Ella was being corrupted by this family that were always in trouble with the law and DCP or Police didn’t protect her or myself.

After a period of time in 2009 Bonny phoned me introduced herself and said “why don’t I fight for my daughter”.

My rights were taken away from me so how could I fight for my daughter so I just hung up, not saying a word to her question as I had fought for my children so so hard with no help by the authorities such as yourself that has left me my family and children damaged beyond belief and for life. I claim that DCP & WA Police to have coursed server suffered "emotional stress, headaches, nightmares, a general feeling of malaise, and shock to their nervous system, grief and depression."

The Police in one instance come to our home on my request because Kate (my daughter) was shoving me with great force in the chest and hitting me and one of her shoves was that hard that she slipped on the floor and started to go to ground so I reached out cupped my hand over her right shoulder and half supported her and at the same time made sure she ended up on the floor so she would stop hitting me and shoving me. I turned around to walk down the stair and Kate shoved me a few more time then said “I am going to destroy your life> She then turned to my mother and said dad grabbed my boob. Make note my mother was up stair and saw Kate pushing me hard and when she slipped and also she heard what Kate said. I believe Kate said this because she knows what her mother did in the Family Court accusing me of molesting my children or at least used words to that effect.

Police turned up after I phoned them and they did nothing but undermined my parenting directing me to give the mobile phone back to Kate as it was hers but I paid part of the cost. They said if I didn’t give the phone back they would arrest me. This was a female officer. Looking back I should never given the phone back and let them arrest me as I believe I have a right as a parent to take things from my children for punishment so they will behave.

The Police took my parenting rights away from me right there and then in-front of my child and parents. Can you imagine a parent taking a toy from a child and getting arrested? Laughable

I have evidence and witness to part of the above complaint against DCP and WA Police force and if you require any copies of information that I have please let me know

Statutory declarations

Witness

Address:

Name:

I declared to be true in the presence of an authorised witness.




Although DCP (Depatment of Child Protection took Ella out of our home and never notify us where she was, they state that Ella is meant to be in my care. I don't know where she is because DCP took her away and they say now Ella is in my care , this is another Goverement cover-up by DCP who didn't do their job in the first place

The year of separation

On the 5th February I have a Spinal Disc Replacement, know this doesn’t sound like a man but the night before my ex-wife decided she want sex. I couldn’t understand as she knew I was in pain and said know a couple times and just gave up let her have her way then had a show because hot water on my back helped kill the pain.

After I had the show I had a few words to say about what just happened and almost accused her of rape. Next day drove myself to the hospital but before I left asked her not to contact me so I checked into Mount street hospital with request that she not contact me. My mother was staying with us at the time so I knew mum wouldn’t let her harm the children and also asked her not to pick on the kids while I was away.

After I got out of hospital I was still expected to do most things around the house but for some reason she stopped me taking the kids to school.

The wound from the operation got infected with one of the stains of Golden Staff that made me feel very ill and the disc replacement was grinding when I bent over that also made me feel like chucking up when it grind. Lived in a three level house and took several falls down the stairs and at one time I would swear she pushed me.

One afternoon she was at work and we pre- arranged to have takeaway that night because I was feeling sick. At around 5pm I received a phone call from her say that she wanted me to have the kids fed and bathed before she got home. My mother was there and she offered to help but I knew if she did my ex-wife would get annoyed and take it out on me or the kid as she tried hard to look great in front of other even my mother but some aw through her.

That night while cooking I almost past out and had a dizzy spell and sweat was just dripping from me, not from heat, from the pain.

I believe the recovery period for such an operation is around six to 12 months

The Judge in Family Court ruled that she did everything although my parents lived with us for a period of time and my ex-wife didn’t cook once.

Day before separation she did cook and I commented on it and she said she just felt like cooking. Looking back it was like having a last meal before getting hung with false sexual allegations in the family court.

If you read above if I was touching my kids why would she instructed me to have the kids bathed and fed before she got home

Yes the Family Court is bias and a man killer; even I accused them and her of mental child abuse

Chapter and photo copies to come to prove what I say is true